30 Apr 2013

Keeping in touch and all that....


Just another funny cat picture....

I am not hiding from monsters but it sometimes feel like I am. This is the longest break from EVE-ONLINE ever and it has turned out to be quite healthy actually. The reasons for the enforced break has been discussed before but my wife is still without a permanent job, my own roles have been cut back and job prospects are looking a little bleaker each month. We both agreed to cut back on 'stuff' in order to save money. Dropping from a double-income to a single one - with the outgoings still being the same was a jolt, I can tell you! We're not pleading poverty but wanted to see if we had the will and discipline to do it when things were hard but not impossible, before circumstances deteriorated to the point where we would be having trouble servicing the mortgage and the weekly shopping becomes an exercise in pain. So, sort of dipping one's toe in the water before the full cold-water submersion.

Why was EVE-ONLINE on the chopping block? Well, EVE isn't a game, it is a lifestyle, an obsession and a very fickle mistress. I have played EVE longer than I have known my wife and since she had more time now at home, it was only right that she wanted to spend it with me and I with her. I mean, she's my wife! Also, just having a conversation over a cup of tea with the cats bouncing around us is nice. I have learnt to say 'yes, dear' a lot of late!

It wasn't just EVE that was on the chopping block but also the cable TV subscription, regular outings to restaurants (though I love to cook at home - which I am doing more of, hurray!) and cinema outings to name a few.

My subscription is still active however, I paid for it with my credit card and it has a couple of months left. I left a long training session running so nothing lost I hope. I do feel a bit guilty when I try to log in, however, as the temptation to play is still there but I there's plenty to do around the house and garden and I still need to help my wife with job hunting. So, each time my mouse hovers over the login button - something else pulls me away.

My client has been regularly patched and I see some excitement from the FanFest in the form of blogs and videos. Also, the special edition - CCP please take my money! Looks delicious and I am due a small bonus so why not? Split it with the wife - she get's a manicure and a massage and I get the special edition DVD on pre-order AND may be some blag from the store too - I love the starmap t-shirt and the Gurista bag too.
Keeping in touch with friends and foes alike.
So, a keeping in touch post to friends and foes alike. I know when I do get back, a lot of things will have changed but that fills me with excitement. Just hope my missus gets successful in her job hunt!

Fingers crossed.

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Oh man I hear ya. I went thru this last year, lost my business, lost my income and things were very close to being horrible for a long time. We did the same things, cut back and stayed low to the ground. It was a rough year and we are still digging out in some ways, but the new job is pretty stable and things are starting to look up. So hang in there, do the right things and keep the courage.
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Thansk Rixx, I came close to losing my job/income (twice) and it isn't pleasant. I never take things for granted mind but it's not an easy decision to make. Also, hard decisions include serving notice on colleagues - horrible. So yeah, cutting back now when we can if something sensible. However, am hopeful that my wife gets a job she deserves and my own job / company gets more stable. Am hanging in there and my courage is strong (though dented in a few places!) - peace!
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Johnny Twelvebore · 621 weeks ago

Hey Flash, good to see you're still alive!

Hope your luck picks up soon and look forward to seeing you back in game.
Great to get an update dude, miss you old timers, these kids are all up on our lawn
Glad to see your alive and well Flash. I'm out of EVE as well, but I miss all The Bastards for sure.

-Rae
good to know all is good flash, and that u enjoy your moments with your wife. It is always nice to spend time with your loved ones, especially if it is your other half! Keep up with the positive thinking and good thiangs will eventually happen! See you around (off from EVE too, but always tempted)
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InterDict · 562 weeks ago

Yo Master Flash, eish bru!

You know looking back at my eve career, I do believe a big step back was the right decision.

I still feel nostalgic thinking about my hurricanes and auto-cannons, our roaming fleets and good fights. Honestly out of the 5 (or more) years I spent playing Eve I don't fondly recall the three accounts, production, hauling, selling, ratting and mission running (all done to support my one true love, the lowsec pirate).

What makes me smile and twitch inside were the little things: x'ing up, getting a fleet going, jumping on comms, hearing your chirpy voice saying hi, hitting that undock button, aligning, warping, listening to scouts and jumping into an engagement. Basically the time spent with The Bastards, doing dasterdly things were the most memorable. Eve does still hold a special place in my heart, an experience unmatched so far. However I'm glad I kicked the addiction.

You take care my man, wishing you and yours all the best, may your AC's forever go rata-tat-tat!

InterDict.
Glad to see your alive and well Flash. I'm out of EVE as well, but I miss all The Bastards for sure.
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Thinking about you recently, Flash, wondering how life is treating you and your family these days. Hopefully, well. Hugs!

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